A narcissistic person is not born a narcissist, they are exposed to become one.
They don’t abuse everyone they come in contact with, they choose their targets carefully.
Narcissist work under the Jezebel and Leviathan spirit.
The Narcissist spirit works together along side 8 demons.
1. Spirit of Rebellion and Manipulation.
Narcissist are master manipulators. They love to control or influence often by deceit and unfairness for their own interest.
they use tactics like guilt tripping, gaslighting and isolation tactics to ultimately undermine a sense of reality for personal gain and power.
This causes their victims to feel like they are always walking on eggshells causing guilt as they fought their own judgment.
1 Samuel 15:23 rebellion is like the sin of divination (witchcraft), and stubbornness is like idolatry and iniquity, because King Saul rejected God’s word, leading God to reject him as king.
2.Spirit of Envy.
Narcissist always wants what they cannot have. They are resentful and unhappy at others blessings and successes causing a deep desire to poses it themselves because they feel entitled to have what they don’t.
3. Spirit of Confusion.
Narcasist main goal is to attack the mind
This is a weapon the enemy uses to attack through mental and emotional distraction disorientation to paralyze and overwhelm his victims into questioning the word of God and even their own sanity. This is the Narcissist favorite playground.
Their goal is to make you feel like you’re going crazy. They will jam up your receiving signals from God and keep you on a emotional roller coaster trapped in a toxic mental spiral causing you to believe that as a Christian your somehow responsible to improve this person’s behavior in the relationship.
4. Spirit of Condemnation.
Narcissist hold hateful accusations and finds fault in their victims to create in them hopelessness. They criticize and blame shift and hold them responsible for things they created.
5. Spirit of Control.
Narcissists only have their own interest in mind. They only seek to control the narrative “ their image and you “.
They will use mental and emotional tricks to get you to do their bidding.
Traumatized people are the biggest targets for a narcissist because their emotions can easily be manipulated.
6. Spirit of Deception ( a lying spirit ).
Narcissists are addicted to lying. Their ambition is to exaggerate themselves and diminish you.
Proverbs 12:22 The LORD detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy“
7. Spirit of Pride.
A narcissist is boastful and always try to bribe their way. They are arrogant, stubborn and self righteous. They lack accountability and rather replace than repair. They idolize themselves and carry a spirit of haughtiness.
Luke 14:11 everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted,”
8. The Spirit of Fear.
This spirit weighs heavy on a narcissist. Behind their falseness hides a scared immature child who can’t function well in life. They come off fearless but it’s all an act to get others to think that they have it all together. They carry intense shame that they cover up and they look for targets who are insecure and easy to manipulate to give the appearance of confidence. The truth is they are weak and in need of a supply to feed off of and that’s why they try so hard to control and manipulate because they are drowning in fear.
what does God tell us to do when we come across a person with these kind of Spirits.
2 Timothy 3:1-5
describes difficult timesin the “last days,” characterized by people who are self-centered, materialistic, arrogant, disobedient, unloving, and hypocritical, having only an outward appearance of godliness while denying its true power, with the instruction to “Avoid such people”.